Your person, on your home screen.
Dote is a private little app for exactly two people. Send a photo, a note, a doodle, or a mood — it lands on each other's home-screen widgets in seconds, wherever in the world you both are.
Free for both of you · Plus is one purchase that covers the couple
How it feels
Small moments, straight to their pocket.
No feed to scroll, no likes to count. Just the two of you, trading little proofs of "thinking of you".
Send a moment
Photos, little notes, finger doodles, and how you're feeling right now. Each one appears on your person's widget — usually within seconds of sending.
Count the days of us
A days-together counter that quietly grows, milestones worth actually celebrating, and a gentle streak. Streaks pause when life happens — they never punish.
Made for the distance
See each other's local time at a glance and count down to the next visit, together. Built LDR-first — because 10,000 km shouldn't feel like it.
Private by design
Built for two. Sealed for two.
Everything you share in Dote is visible to exactly one person: yours.
- Just the two of youEvery photo and note is locked to your couple at the database layer. No feed, no followers, no public anything.
- No ads, no trackersZero advertising SDKs, zero third-party analytics. We measure one thing: whether your moments arrive fast.
- Start without an accountNo email or phone number needed to begin. To us you're a random ID — and that's the point.
- Delete for realExport your memories any time. If you unpair, there's a 30-day change-of-heart window — then everything is permanently gone.
The honest bit
Things Dote will never do.
No virtual pet that starves if you don't open the app.
No "your partner is waiting…" guilt notifications.
No countdown-timer paywalls or fake urgency.
No free tier crippled on purpose.
Pricing
The heart of Dote is free.
Free
$0, forever
Send moments, the home-screen widget, your days-together counter, moods, and streaks. Everything a couple needs, respectably free.
Dote Plus
$3.99/mo · $19.99/yr · $34.99 once
Premium widget and note styles, more countdowns, and first dibs on new toys. Style on top — never the core. Yearly starts with a 7-day free trial.
One purchase covers both of you. Always.
Questions
Fair things to ask.
Does one subscription really cover us both?
Yes. When one of you gets Plus, you both have it — on both phones. Charging a couple twice for the same relationship felt wrong, so we don't.
One of us has an iPhone, the other Android. Does it work?
Yes. Dote ships on iOS and Android, and mixed couples are first-class — widgets, moments and moods work the same in both directions.
What happens to our stuff if we break up?
You can export your memories first, always. Unpairing starts a 30-day window in case you change your minds — either of you can invite the other to rejoin, and everything comes back. After 30 days it's permanently deleted, photos included. That's a promise we keep, not a threat we sell.
When can we get it?
Dote is in on-device testing now and launching on the App Store and Google Play soon. Anything else on your mind — support@dotelove.com. A human reads it.